Ukuhlolwa Kokuhambisana Kobuntu
Khetha izinhlobo ezimbili zobuntu bese ubona ukuthi zihambisana kanjani othandweni, ebunganini, nasemsebenzini.
Ukuhlolwa kokuhambisana kwe-MBTI kuqhathanisa izinhlobo ezimbili zobuntu futhi kubuyisa isikolo sothando, ubungane, nomsebenzi nencazelo ecacile, ukuze ubone ukuthi noma yikuphi ukubhanqa kuvame ukuhambisana kanjani.
Imibuzo evame ukubuzwa mayelana nokuhlolwa kokuhambisana
Kusebenza kanjani ukuhlolwa kokuhambisana?
Khetha izinhlobo ezimbili kweziyi-16 zobuntu futhi ukuhlolwa kuziqhathanise kuzo zonke izilinganiso ezine ze-MBTI, kulinganisa izintandokazi ezifanayo kanye nokulingana okulethwa umehluko. Kubuyisa izikolo ezihlukene zothando, ubungane, nomsebenzi, kanye nencazelo emfushane. Yonke inqubo ishesha, isebenza kusiphequluli sakho, futhi ayidingi ukubhalisa noma ulwazi lomuntu siqu.
Ingabe bobabili abantu badinga ukwazi uhlobo lwabo?
Ukuze uthole umphumela onembile kakhulu, yebo. Uma noma yimuphi umuntu engakacaci, angathatha ukuhlolwa kwamahhala kwemibuzo eyi-12 kuqala, okuthatha imizuzu embalwa kuphela. Uma seninazo zombili izinhlobo zenu zezinhlamvu ezine, zifake ekuhlolweni kokuhambisana ukuze ubone ukuthi ukubhanqa kwenu kuvame ukuhambisana kanjani ezimweni zothando, ubungane, nomsebenzi.
Ingabe umphumela wokuhambisana unembile?
Kungumhlahlandlela ocabangelayo kunokulinganisa okunembile. Umphumela ubonisa amaphethini ahlobene nokuthi izinhlobo ezimbili zihambisana kanjani, kodwa ubudlelwane bangempela buxhomeke ekuxhumaneni, amanani, nomzamo. Sebenzisa izikolo ukuze uqonde amandla nomehluko, bese ukhuluma ngazo. Ayikho isikolo esiqinisekisa impumelelo noma ukwehluleka; ivele igqamisa lapho ukubhanqa kungase kugeleze noma kudinga ukunakekelwa.
Ngingakwazi ukuhlola ubungane nokuhambisana komsebenzi?
Yebo. Konke ukuqhathanisa kubuyisa izindlela ezintathu ezihlukene: uthando, ubungane, nomsebenzi. Izinhlobo ezimbili ezifanayo zingahambisana ngokuhlukile kukho konke, njengoba umsebenzi uklomela amakhono ahambisanayo, ubungane uklomela izintshisekelo ezifanayo, futhi uthando uklomela ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo. Ukubheka zonke ezintathu kunikeza isithombe esigcwele, esithembeke kakhulu kunenombolo eyodwa iyonke engakwenza.
Ingabe ukuhlolwa kokuhambisana kumahhala?
Yebo, kumahhala ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokubhalisa, i-imeyili, noma inkokhelo. Ungaqhathanisa ukubhanqa kwezinhlobo eziningi ngendlela othanda ngayo futhi ubuyekeze noma nini. Njengayo yonke indawo, kusekelwa ukukhangisa kunokuba izimali, ngakho ukuhlolwa kokuhambisana nalo lonke ithuluzi kuhlala kuvulekele wonke umuntu ofuna ukuwasebenzisa.
Zingaki izinhlanganisela zezinhlobo engingazihlola?
Ungahlola noma yikuphi ukuhlanganiswa kwezinhlobo eziyi-16, okuhlanganisa ukubhanqa okuyingqayizivele okuyi-120 kanye nemidlalo yohlobo olufanayo. Qhathanisa uhlobo lwakho nazo zonke ezinye eziyi-15 noma uhlole imidlalo yabangane nomndeni. Akukho mkhawulo ekutheni zingaki izinhlanganisela ozihlolayo, futhi ngayinye ibuyisa ukuhlaziya kwayo siqu kothando, ubungane, nomsebenzi.